infused with law & Psychology “Divorce is usually sad, but doesn’t have to be financially and emotionally devastating” - Oliver Ross, JD*, PhD

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Step 1

Free Consultation - Written Time and Cost Estimate

This Step gives you and your spouse an opportunity to get answers to your questions and a clear understanding of the time and cost involved from start to finish.  Our Mediator answers your particular questions, clarifies how our mediation process differs from using attorneys and other mediators, explains how our mediation process typically works, and provides a written “Time and Cost Estimate”.

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Step 2

Starting - Mediation Rules and Procedures

This Step provides a time and cost saving roadmap and respectful boundaries for the mediation. To begin, our Mediator explains the mediation “Rules & Procedures” for defining his role and ensuring full disclosure of property and debts, an atmosphere of mutual respect, the best interests of any minor children, and an equitable resolution of all matters.

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Step 3

Getting Current

This Step brings our Mediator up to speed about your situation and also sets the table for having all of the information and documents needed later on in the mediation process for you and your spouse to make fully informed decisions and resolve all matters quickly and inexpensively. You and your spouse disclose any matters about which you already agree or don’t agree, share your individual concerns if not worries or fears, and state your goals for the mediation. Our Mediator asks questions about your individual educational and career backgrounds, incomes, finances, and health condition. Our Mediator also requests you and your spouse provide information and documents relevant to your situation.

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Step 4


This Step gives you and your spouse a safe and supportive space to work with our Mediator to successfully mediate all issues involved in your matter, including how your property will be divided, your debts allocated, and any co-parenting, child support, and spousal maintenance matters. Most mediations without minor children typically take 4-6 hours to complete, while those with minor children typically take 6-8 hours.

With his extensive background in law, business, and psychology, and his extraordinary expertise in mediation, our Mediator will help both you and your spouse communicate and negotiate effectively, offer various options and alternatives for resolving disagreements, and provide legal, financial, tax, and other relevant information – all directed towards one central goal: to ensure that you and your spouse make fully informed decisions about each and every matter involved in your situation.

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Step 5

Settlement Agreement – Court Documents

This Step ensures that all decisions made in Step 4 are included in a legally-binding settlement agreement, all court documents are accurately prepared, and you and spouse never have to go to Court. Our time-tested and all-inclusive settlement agreements and court documents assures that there are no loose ends and are guaranteed to be approved by the Court. You and your spouse can rest assured you won’t ever have to surrender control to an attorney or a Judge.

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1 Step 1: Free Consultation
2 Step 2: Starting
3 Step 3: Getting Current
4 Step 4: Mediating
5 Step 5: Settlement Agreement


With his expertise in law, business, psychology and mediation,
Oliver is adept at resolving divorce disputes quickly, caringly and inexpensively.
Oliver Ross, JD*, PhD
  • Since 1995: Mediated over 2500 Arizona Divorces and Legal Separations
  • Select Member: Maricopa County Superior Court Family Mediation Roster
  • Past President: Maricopa County Association of Family Mediators
  • Founding Member: Academy of Professional Family Mediators
  • Author: Situational Mediation, Sensible Conflict Resolution (2003)
  • Educator: Trained 32 Arizona Attorneys in Situational™ Mediation
  • Certified Licensed Document Preparer: Arizona
  • JD Degree: California* Licensed Lawyer
  • BA Degree: Accounting
  • MA Degree: Clinical Psychology
  • PhD Degree: Behavioral Psychology
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Legal Separation Mediation

When legally separating, couples make informed decisions about property rights, debts, custody, and support with the help of a professional mediator. They avoid the hostility and expense of using two adversarial lawyers.

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Start Without Your Spouse Program

Even if your spouse is hesitant or unwilling to divorce or legally separate, we make it easy for you to start proceedings on your own– for only $295.

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Stop Litigating, Start Mediating

It’s never too late to stop the increased hostility and substantial cost of litigating with adversarial lawyers. With his 20+ years as a professional divorce mediator and backgrounds in law and psychology, regardless of the status of your court case there is a 95% probability that our Mediator will help you completely resolve your matter quickly and expensively.

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Change Child Support Flat Fee Program

Flat Fee: $495; 1st Installment: $195 2nd Installment: $200; Flat Fee cost does not include filing fee. This Program includes modifications to Monthly Child Support Payments and preparation of all accompanying paperwork required by the court.

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Change Custody, Child Support, Time-Sharing and/or Other Child-Related Matters Flat Fee Program

We make it easy to change child support, custody, time-sharing, and/or any other minor child-related matters– all in 3 simple Steps for only $495.

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Co-Parenting Flat Fee Program

We make it easy for unmarried parents to reach full agreement about all child support, custody, time-sharing, and all other minor child-related matters– all in 3 simple Steps for only $495.

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Prenuptial Mediation

If you are engaged to be married but have other people and things to consider such as children from a previous marriage and property interests, we can complete your Prenuptial Agreement by email or phone quickly and inexpensively — in 3 easy steps — for only $595.

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Postnuptial Mediation

Some couples experience difficulties in their marriage but do not want to commence legal proceedings for divorce or legal separation; however, they do want to work together with a professional mediator to address and reach a postnuptial agreement concerning their financial and other marital matters.

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See what our past and current clients have to say about their experience at Out-of-Court Solutions
Sherry Wright

Out-of-Court Solutions guided us through the difficult process of divorce. Valuable information was provided that enabled us to formulate intelligent decisions.

Judy Barreto

The professionalism, organization, ability to completely explain and make aware of all the options possible were kindly delivered by Oliver. I would not look anywhere else for a better mediator

Paul Simpson

Even under the best of circumstances, a divorce is a difficult process to go through. Tamara Hirsch proved to be an incredibly valuable guide through painful territory.

Jenna Marie

My experince using Out-of-Court-Solutions was extremely positive and I highly recommend their services to anyone facing as difficult a situation as a divorce or separation.

Tracy R.

Oliver and his staff made this difficult time in our lives so much easier. The approach to divorce was handled with concern for our emotional, as well as financial, well-being. We both came out feeling as though we were treated fairly and given sound advice for going forward.


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