Why Mediation Is More Cost Effective During Divorce

Why Mediation Is More Cost Effective During Divorce

Divorce is something that many people want to get through and over with as soon as possible, but it’s best that you explore all of your options before you commit time and money to any single strategy. Rather than resort to a divorce lawyer, consider divorce mediation. Not only is mediation more cost effective for everyone involved, it’s also more personal, faster and more confidential than a potentially adversarial divorce proceeding.

 

Less Expensive

One of the main reasons mediation is less expensive than using a divorce lawyer is lawyers can charge clients anywhere from $2,500 to $10,000 for a retainer, and that’s from each spouse. In addition to the retainer, clients also have to pay for any extra services they incur. Divorce mediation is an especially good option if the divorce involves the custody of children or complex financial issues. The total cost of mediation can possibly be less than the cost of the retainer for one spouse.

 

More Personal

If your divorce goes before a judge, he or she will more than likely mostly deal with your lawyer and not you. While your lawyer represents you, you may want to engage directly with the judge. With mediation, the mediator listens personally to both spouses and helps them to negotiate and reach a fair agreement.

 

Speed

By using a divorce lawyer, you may have to wait several months before you can get a court date while everyone gets their schedules lined up. Divorce mediation lets you set your own timeframe, which means you don’t have to draw the process out a day longer than necessary. You don’t have to deal with the prolonged anxiety of unresolved issues, and you don’t have to remain with someone you want to be divorced from as soon as possible.

 

More Confidential

By using a divorce lawyer, you have to go before a judge, court employees, officers and other litigants to discuss your divorce, and you might not like the idea of discussing the finer details of your divorce and the reasons for it in front of strangers and possibly people you know. Mediation is private, and all documents, communications and notes remain completely confidential, so there’s no need for you to worry about your business being spread around the community.

 

If you’re thinking about getting a divorce, or if you’re in the middle of a drawn out divorce, consider divorce mediation to save time, money and frustration. You deserve to start your new life as soon as possible and without the financial burden that can come with a court-based divorce.

About Oliver Ross

Oliver Ross, JD*, PhD founded Out-of-Court Solutions Inc. in 1995 and since then has mediated over 3,000 divorce and family matters. He is a select member of the Maricopa Superior Court Family Mediation roster